## Why
A malicious exec-server can send out-of-order process notifications
faster than missing events arrive. The client retained every future
event in a per-session reorder map, so many tiny events or a few large
output chunks could grow orchestrator memory without bound.
## What changed
- cap each session's pending process-event reorder state at 256 events
and 1 MiB
- reject individual process events larger than 1 MiB
- release byte accounting as events publish or a session fails
- fail and detach only the affected process session when a limit is
exceeded
- let the next expected event drain a full buffer, so the limits apply
to retained future state
- apply the same bounded insertion path during reconnect recovery while
safely handling dense tail output, missing exit events, newer live
notifications, and conflicting `Closed` sequences
Sequence distance is intentionally not capped because it does not affect
allocation; the event-count and byte limits are the resource-exhaustion
boundary.
## Tests
Focused exec-server tests cover oversized output, full count/byte
buffers, gap-closing delivery, dense recovery interleaved with newer
notifications, missing exit reconstruction, and conflicting terminal
sequences.
## Scope
This is limited to per-session process-event reorder state. It does not
introduce a scheduler, quota framework, or new public configuration.